Of course you can chat with girls every day while chasing girls. After all, this is an opportunity for you and girls to get to know each other. If you can chat well, you can also chat with girls every day. So if you and a girl have established a relationship, is it necessary for the couple to chat every day? What is the normal chat mode for couples?
1. Normal couple chat mode
A normal couple relationship should be like this: chatting between two people must be as natural as breathing. It doesn’t matter if they chat every day or not every day. The content of the chat is very casual, sharing each other's lives, and if you miss each other, you can send messages at any time. It doesn't matter if the other party sees it and replies when he is free.
@OhMei Duo: I often went on business trips with my leader last year. He and his wife have been together since high school. They have been together for 10 years now and have two children. They are also very loving. They have a tacit understanding, because they are always on business trips and have little time to go home. He is in the hotel on business trips. The two of them have video chats every day. Their mobile phones are standing on the table. He is playing World of Tanks here, and his wife is tossing the kids over there. , if you want to say something, just chat a few words, and if you don’t have anything to say, just play the video and do your own thing, everything is very natural.
2. Wrong chatting mode between couples
And many couples have wrong chatting mode. It cannot be said that the conversation was wrong, but that the person was chosen wrongly. When the two first met, they stopped talking. Many people began to fall in love, but chatting was still very difficult. Every day I feel like it’s time to chat at what time it is.
I rack my brains to find a topic. Even if the conversation is awkward, I grit my teeth and continue to think about it. When I look at the time, I’ve finished chatting today, so I say goodbye. Good night, and then both sides let out a sigh of relief when it was over.
This is the wrong choice. The two of them are not compatible at all. How is it possible for couples who are in love these days to treat each other as politely as guests? They are not just fighting and teasing.
This kind of forced awkward chat happens a lot in couples who meet on blind dates. Both parties are under pressure from many parties and try their best to cooperate with each other as a "couple". In fact, both of them are very tired, talking to each other every day. It's like acting, can you not be tired? It just feels wrong to talk like this, and it won't last long.
Summary: It doesn’t really matter whether couples need to chat every day. What’s important is that two people don’t chat for the sake of chatting. Many people like to calculate there, what day they chatted, how many conversations they had, how many words they said, how many words the other party responded to, what topics they talked about today, and what topics they will talk about tomorrow. There is no need to be so precise. If you focus too much on tactics, it is easy to overlook strategy. And the love plot has reached this point, are you sure you can really make it to the end?
