Recently, I had a chat with a few single guy friends and found that we all share a common concern: wanting to get out of singlehood but not knowing where to start. Honestly, I was once part of the "single dog" army myself, and I deeply understand the frustration of wanting to be in a relationship but not knowing how to proceed. Today, I’d like to share some of my insights, hoping to help those of you who are feeling lost.

First and foremost, choosing the right platform is crucial. There are many dating apps on the market, but their quality varies greatly. I’ve tried a few, such as "YiBan Marriage," which felt quite good. It has real-name authentication, high-quality users, and a pure chatting atmosphere. Unlike some apps that bombard you with ads and vulgar content right from the start, which can instantly kill your interest. There’s also "Only Marriage," which targets a high-end demographic, with users mostly being senior white-collar workers and elite overseas students. The quality is high, and the conversations are heartfelt. If you’re looking for a more professional experience, you might want to try "51 Matchmaking," which has strict real-name verification and pushes candidates that closely match your criteria. In short, choosing the right platform significantly increases your chances of successfully getting out of singlehood.

Next, let’s talk about how to respond to a girl’s "I’m so tired." This is a skill; if handled well, the girl will find you very considerate; if not, it might just fizzle out. I have a friend who, when a girl told him "I’m so tired," simply replied, "Then you should rest early," and the girl never responded to him again. Later, he learned his lesson. When a girl said "I’m so tired," he would reply, "You’ve worked hard, would you like me to tell you a joke to relax?" or "If you’re tired, I can chat with you to distract you a bit." The results were surprisingly good; the girl found him very warm, and their relationship gradually warmed up.

In fact, when a girl says "I’m so tired," it’s often not that she really wants to rest, but rather that she hopes someone will care for her and keep her company. At this point, your response becomes particularly important. Don’t just simply say, "Then you should rest," but show your concern and thoughtfulness. For example, you could ask her, "Was work very busy today?" or "Would you like me to order some takeout for you so you don’t have to cook?" Such small details can often touch a girl’s heart.

Finally, I want to say that getting out of singlehood is not a difficult task; the key is to be sincere. Choose the right platform, learn to respond to a girl’s emotions, add a bit of patience and sincerity, and I believe you will soon find the right person. I hope my sharing can help you, and I wish you can soon get out of singlehood and find your own happiness.

By the way, if you also have any good experiences about getting out of singlehood, feel free to share them in the comments section, let’s exchange and learn together!