I had a good chat with a girl, but because both parties were very busy, they gradually stopped contacting each other after breaking off contact several times. But now that I have some free time, I want to reconnect. What should I do in this situation? Where's the beginning?

Actually, this boy's idea is also possible. Many people may not continue chatting with people they like because they are busy with work and school recently.

1. Reopen the topic through the previous chat

For example, ask the girl directly: What we said last time Have you continued to participate in that event? Last time we talked about you liking spicy food, I happened to go to a good one, and I recommend it to you.

In short, I am going to look through the chat history between the two of you. I have to emphasize one point here, that is, you must not expose your strong sense of need in these few chats.

If you directly ask her out to participate in activities or go to this restaurant together, this will appear to be too purposeful and the girl will feel very uncomfortable.

Just be like an ordinary friend. After all, only by having a good conversation can we create prerequisites for subsequent pursuits.

2. Reopen the topic through Moments

For girls who frequently post on Moments, find her The latest news can be accessed through comments.

For example, a girl went to a certain restaurant to eat or where to play. You can privately chat with a girl and ask her: "Did you eat here just now?"

If the girl replies correctly, you can continue the topic: "I just came here yesterday, what a coincidence. Ahaha! If I had known you were coming today, I would have come today.”

Or if you see a girl posting about travel information about where she went, you can ask her if she is traveling during the holiday? It's quite fun here.

Then, if you ask the girl for a travel guide and say that you are planning to go there, won’t the conversation open up?

Likewise, you must pay attention to it, and you must show that you are Low demand, otherwise the purpose is too clear, and girls will think you are strange.

3. Ask her for help with something she has experience with

Find an opportunity for her to reach out to you Helping hand.

Don’t be afraid that people will find you annoying. I have talked about the Franklin Effect before. I wonder if you still remember it. This kind of easy help will not make the other party too embarrassed, and it can also increase your relationship with others. Girls have a sense of connection. After a girl helps you, she can also invite you: "Thank you, I will treat you to dinner when I have time, express your gratitude in person!"

It is polite and natural, how nice !