Many boys are aggressive in front of their friends. They can pick up any topic and make any jokes, but when they are in front of girls, all the topics in their minds become

"Are you there?" "What are you doing?" "Have you eaten?" make girls lose interest. In fact, if you are a little normal and humorous, are you afraid that you will not be able to catch up with the girl you like?

Next, let’s take a look at 3 methods that can improve your sense of humor and teach you how to be humorous. Chat with girls.

1. Self-deprecation

Comedy master Chaplin once told a story: Someone suffered from severe depression. After he got sick, he went to see a doctor. The doctor said to him: "Recently, a very humorous man came to the city. He told jokes on the street for three days. The whole city was very happy these days. I suggest you go find him, so that you can be recognized." Motivate me."

The person replied: "I am the particularly humorous person you mentioned."

Although it is just a story, it reveals a psychological phenomenon that makes people more interesting. Tend to accept stories that are worse than one's own to gain a sense of psychological superiority and catharsis.

Humor is actually a science that studies failure and losers. The sadder it is, the funnier it is.

So, how do we show ourselves humorously when we get along with girls we have known for a short time?

Bragging is definitely not an option, as it will only make the other party more disgusted. However, self-deprecation is a way to "save the country through curves".

Only those who are confident and relaxed are not afraid of exposing their shortcomings. Those who lack self-confidence need to show their strengths to gain recognition from others. The qualities shown by daring to laugh at oneself are actually generosity and self-confidence.

For example, when a girl jokes and complains: "You are so stingy."

It is definitely inappropriate to be angry at this time. Self-deprecation is the most appropriate solution. Just follow her wishes and exaggerate this point of view.

"You just realized? Haha, I always follow the bus and run home by myself in order to save 1 yuan."

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2. Jokes

Nowadays, joke writers on the Internet are very popular. You may think that only comedians can write jokes. In fact, we ordinary people can also write jokes.

Let me teach you a formula: joke = foreshadowing + baggage.

For example, our first sentence can be: "Each of us should love and care for small animals."

In this way, the other person will be guided in the direction of caring for small animals, and then he will say: "Because they are really delicious."

This creates a sense of surprise. The foreshadowing does not need to be funny. You only need to state a fact. The more serious and serious the better. The funny part is in the back.

For example, the girl asked where you are?

It’s too boring for us to directly answer where you are. We can foreshadow the first sentence, I am on the grassland. Then the second sentence, "I'm in Qingqing Grassland, going to find Big Big Wolf to play with."

Not only does it have a visual feel, but it can also be understood as a cute meme of an adult who doesn’t want to grow up.

To practice writing jokes, you can watch more humorous TV programs, such as talk shows, Guo Degang, etc.

Develop the habit of watching and improve your sense of humor by memorizing the jokes.

3. Creating accidents

Humor is about telling pain and truth from an interesting perspective.

If we observe life from a novel perspective, we will often get a surprising conclusion.

For example, if a girl says "Hello" when you meet her for the first time, it will be a bit awkward for you to reply "Hello".

If we change the topic and say: "It's so formal, it's like a blind date."

The atmosphere will suddenly become lively.

Remember, humor is an ability, not a talent. Its importance is much higher than we think.

A person with a great sense of humor will make the other person happy and at the same time feel that you are very kind and want to know more about us.

It not only allows us to switch from being left out to being noticed.

Many times, compared to having enough money or a good-looking face, the other party is more willing to choose the person who gives her happiness and comfort at that moment.

So, move forward, my friend. With more humor and less rigidity, you will find that you can be so popular with the opposite sex.