Recently, while browsing videos, I came across numerous topics about relationships, especially the topic of "We're not compatible," which really struck a chord. Honestly, who hasn't stumbled in love? Especially first love, that pure emotion, once betrayed, feels like a bolt from the blue.

I remember a video where a girl was in her first relationship and ended up being betrayed by her boyfriend. The comments section was filled with sighs, with someone saying, "First love is like a dream, only to wake up and realize you've been deceived." Another commented, "The worst in a relationship is when trust is broken." These comments reminded me of my own past experiences, that heartbreak is truly indescribable.

However, today I want to talk not about how to avoid betrayal, but about how a man should respond when a girl says "We're not compatible" to be considered high EQ. After all, in relationships, there's no right or wrong, only compatibility. A high EQ response not only maintains one's grace but also leaves a good impression on the other person.

First, don't rush to refute or ask for reasons. Some men, upon hearing "We're not compatible," immediately panic and start asking all sorts of questions: "Why? What did I do wrong?" In fact, this reaction only makes the other person more uncomfortable. A high EQ man will first calm down, then smile and say, "I understand, relationships are about two people, it's okay if we're not compatible." Such a response respects the other's decision and shows one's maturity.

Secondly, don't take "not compatible" as a negation. Some men might think "not compatible" means they're not good enough, but that's not the case. In relationships, there's no right or wrong, it's just that two people aren't suitable for each other. A high EQ man would respond, "Thank you for telling me, I will respect your choice, and I hope you find someone truly suitable for you." This response not only makes the other feel respected but also maintains one's dignity.

Lastly, don't rush to cut off contact. Some men, upon hearing "not compatible," immediately block or delete the other person, which is actually quite immature. A high EQ man will stay calm and continue to interact as friends. After all, in relationships, there are no eternal enemies, only incompatible partners. Keeping in touch might even lead to a good friendship in the future.

In summary, when a girl says "We're not compatible," a high EQ man will stay calm, respect the other's choice, and not take "not compatible" as a negation. Such a response not only maintains one's grace but also leaves a good impression on the other. I hope every man can learn to respond with high EQ in relationships, after all, in relationships, there's no right or wrong, only compatibility.