Recently, while chatting with friends about the topic of getting into a relationship, I noticed a common misconception among many guys: they believe that without a car or a house, it's impossible to find a girlfriend. Honestly, as someone who's been through it, I think this view is a bit too absolute. Today, I want to talk about how you can still find your ideal partner even without these material possessions.

First off, let's admit that looks can indeed make a good first impression, but they're definitely not the deciding factor. Take a friend of mine, for example. He's not particularly handsome, but he's incredibly good at conversation and always manages to make girls laugh. His current girlfriend was attracted to his sense of humor. So, instead of obsessing over looks, it's better to work on improving your emotional intelligence and communication skills.

Speaking of communication, I've noticed that many guys struggle with what to say when talking to girls. The truth is, girls really dislike awkward small talk. You can focus more on topics that interest them, like the latest TV shows or celebrity gossip. Of course, you need to have some knowledge about these topics, or you might easily give yourself away.

Another important point is learning to listen. Many guys are so eager to express themselves during conversations with girls that they overlook the girls' feelings. In reality, girls prefer someone who listens attentively and offers sincere advice and comfort. For instance, a friend of mine always listens carefully when talking to girls and provides thoughtful advice. Over time, girls find him very reliable and are naturally willing to engage with him.

Additionally, I believe that patience is crucial when pursuing a girl. Many guys rush to confess their feelings right away, which can scare the girl off. In fact, pursuing a girl is a gradual process. You need to make her develop a liking for you first, and then slowly build the relationship. A friend of mine pursued his girlfriend for a whole year before they finally got together. So, don"t rush into confessing your feelings; let the girl develop a liking for you first.

Lastly, I want to say that finding a girlfriend isn"t as hard as it seems. The key is to have confidence. Many guys feel that without a car or a house, they're not good enough for a girl. In reality, girls value your character and potential more. As long as you're outstanding enough, girls will naturally want to be with you. For example, a friend of mine doesn't have a car or a house, but he's very ambitious and works hard. His girlfriend was attracted to these qualities and chose to be with him.

In summary, finding a girlfriend isn't that difficult. The key is to have confidence, improve your emotional intelligence and communication skills, learn to listen, and be patient. As long as you're outstanding enough, girls will naturally want to be with you. Keep it up, guys!