Many boys don’t know how to find topics when chatting with girls. They are always rejected by girls after only a few words. In fact, in addition to the lack of attraction, there is another very important reason why girls can’t find topics in chat. He just won’t pick up the topic of girls. Today, the editor will teach you 3 tricks so that you can have a steady stream of topics when chatting with girls.
How to find topics when chatting with girls?
1. Keyword extension topic
Chat with a girl, no matter how good you are with her , she will also provide you with some keywords. We can find useful information based on the vocabulary in the girl's reply message content, and use the form of sentences to pick up the girl's topic.
For example, if she replies to you: Yes
This is actually the key word. We can make a sentence based on um. For example
Don’t just reply “um” casually. It is said that “um” has been selected as the word that deserves the most beating in 2021
You don’t have to worry about girls replying you “um”. After all, What kind of mentality does it represent and what does it mean? Just keep it simple and use it to make sentences.
Use keywords to extend the topic. Theoretically, we can pick up any topic from the girl, unless of course she says nothing.
Some common keywords in chats, such as eating, shopping, watching TV, etc., are easier to make sentences with. As long as you have passed the second grade of elementary school, these basic sentence formations should be fine.
2. Exaggeration and association method
The exaggeration and association method is actually aimed at a problem or thing, without using normal Use logic to deduce, use dramatic exaggeration, or respond in a way that seems extremely unreliable. For example:
Female: Do you often strike up conversations with girls like this?
Male: Yes, you are the 1001st person I have struck up a conversation with, so lucky
Here boys are using exaggeration and association. Generally, when boys answer this question, they may use normal logic and either admit it or explain it. This is to give girls an extremely exaggerated meaning, creating a feeling that stimulates girls' emotions and makes girls unable to do anything to you.
3. Feeling teasing evaluation method
It means not to evaluate the content of the girl’s reply, but to Reply with how the sentence makes you feel. The focus is not on the chat itself, but on how the chat makes you feel. For example:
Female: You really don’t understand me
Male: Hey, Cuihua, you are overthinking
If this is a normal reply , generally when faced with such doubts from girls, boys will either explain the reasons,Excuse, or just apologize to coax the girl. But the effect of this is very poor, because once you do this, you actually default to doing something wrong.
But the evaluation method of feeling and ridicule will make you more proactive. For example, in this example, the response given by the boy to the girl is actually conveyed to the girl. What it means is: This is all caused by you thinking too much. I have always been fine. Such a reply completely puts the girl within our control and gives us more topics to talk about.
