Girls are naturally insecure, especially in relationships. They are often worried that they will become ugly or that their partner will change their heart, so they often test and make things difficult for their boyfriends.

Even girls who have just met will often ask boys questions that are difficult to answer for testing purposes.

For example, girls say "Am I important?" is one of them. When encountering this kind of problem, you must be careful. If you give the wrong reply, it will cause hidden dangers for your relationship. What is the best way to reply when a girl asks me "Am I important?"

1. My girlfriend says "Am I important?"

If the other person is your actual girlfriend, saying this is often a "power-affirming behavior" and a sign of lack of security. The purpose is to confirm that you still like her and will not change in the future.

Reply to "Then I will listen to you at home, Her Majesty the Queen"

Reply to "Without you, I would rather be a monk on Mount Wutai"

Reply to "Breathing without you I won’t be able to breathe”

Reply to “The spring breeze is not as good as yours”

2. What girls say during the ambiguous period "Am I important?"

If your relationship with a girl has entered the ambiguous stage and the other party asks "Am I important?", there are many ways to reply. The important thing is to pay attention to her emotions.

Reply: "You said the same thing in your last life, turned around and ran away with someone else"

Reply: "You feel so heavy in your heart that you can hardly breathe" (implying that her weight is not good) Light)

Reply to "I won't be able to carry you without lunch (laughing expression)"

Reply to "If there is no past without you, I won't be sad, but if there is, I still have to Love you”

In addition, if the other party asks questions continuously, you must take them seriously.

3. The girl I just met said "Am I important?"

The girl I just met said "I Is it important?" It is mostly a waste test, the purpose is to test your value. At this time, we should first not cater to or explain.

Reply to “Why did you say that suddenly?”

Reply to “We just met not long ago and I’m still a little uncomfortable with you saying that.”

Reply to “I don’t know if it’s important or not. I don’t even know if you are heavy or not, after all, I have never hugged you."

Reply to "Do you usually ask such profound questions when you first meet a boy?"