The first time you chat with a girl who has just joined WeChat is a somewhat nervous process. How to break the ice, make the other party feel comfortable, and establish a good communication relationship? Here are a few tips to share with you.
1. Say hello
Before you start chatting, say hello to the other person. You can simply say "Hello," or address the person by her first name, "Hi, XXX." This will make the other person feel friendly and polite on your part.
2. Introduce yourself
Next, you can briefly introduce yourself. For example, "My name is XXX, nice to meet you." or "I looked at your Moments and thought you were very interesting, and I want to make friends with you."
3. Greetings
Greetings are an important way to get closer to each other. You can ask whether the other party is busy recently, whether they are in good health, etc. This not only shows your concern, but also helps guide the conversation.
4. Chat about common topics
If you have common interests, hobbies or experiences, you can start chatting from these topics. For example, if you both enjoy traveling, you could talk about places you've been to recently or trips you're planning.
5. Ask questions
In chatting, don’t just talk about yourself, but also pay attention to the other person. You can ask some open-ended questions, such as "What do you like to do most?" or "What do you think is the most important thing in life?" This can make the other person feel your attention and respect.
6. Pay attention to tone
In chatting, tone is very important. Keep a friendly, relaxed, and natural attitude. Don't use overly serious or aggressive language, as this can make the other person feel stressed and uncomfortable.
When chatting with a girl who has just added WeChat for the first time, you need to pay attention to greetings, introducing yourself, greetings, talking about common topics, asking questions, and paying attention to your tone. Through these tips, you can establish a good communication relationship and let each other understand and trust each other better.
