No matter what you do, the first experience is always stressful and unforgettable. For example, falling in love for the first time, holding hands for the first time, going on a date for the first time, etc. What are the things that men and women need to pay attention to when they go on a first date?
1. Pay attention to your own clothing
When we go on a first date, we should leave a good first impression to each other. An impression is important. And this first impression is the impression your appearance leaves on the other person.
Generally speaking, it is best to put on makeup when we go on a date. Even if it is not possible, we should dress up neatly.
In addition, when going on a date, you should also pay attention to what you wear. For example, the color of your clothes should not be too dark, otherwise it will make the other person feel distant, and your clothes should not be too casual, otherwise the other person will feel that you do not pay attention to you.
When we dress, we should wear some light-colored clothes. This will show our affinity and the other party will want to get closer to you.
2. Take the initiative to ask each other
The first date is a process of getting to know each other. Not only do you need to show more of yourself, but you also get to know more about the other person. At this time, we might as well try to take the initiative to ask the other party questions, talk about the other party's hobbies, what they like to eat, etc. This can make your conversation more relaxed and pleasant.
After all, communication is two-way. If it is just a one-man show, then the conversation will lose its meaning.
Perhaps you may feel that if you take the initiative to ask the other party a question, but the other party only answers the question and continues to interact with you, what should you do?
If you are If you like each other, you might as well see if the other person is a very quiet person. If so, try to guide him to talk more and talk about things he is interested in. This will be conducive to mutual interaction.
Or maybe the topic we are talking about is not of interest to the other party, then we might as well make a topic that interests both of us, which can also promote communication with each other.
3. Don’t talk about your bad past
Although, on the first date, you need to talk more Show yourself. But you can't fully expose your shortcomings. Otherwise, the other party may be frightened by your exposure of your shortcomings before they can fully discover your strengths, and they may lose the desire to explore you.
Of course, if you fall in love a lot, you can’t speak realistically. If the other party asks, just describe the previous relationship lightly.
Generally speaking, the first date is to make the other person like you more, rather than to nip in the cradle the idea of ??continuing to date you, soDon't expose your shortcomings too much.
No matter what, the first date is really important and there are many things that need to be prepared. The more prepared you are, the more favorable the other party will be to you.
Always remember that when dating, you should relax as much as possible and show yourself naturally. I believe you will also have a good dating experience.
