Compared with boys’ straightforward thinking, girls’ thinking is more emotional and they act more based on feelings. So many boys often fail to read their subtext when chatting with girls. Today, the editor will make up a lesson for you and tell you what a girl says to hint you to ask her out.
1. "I am alone at home today"
When the editor was young, there was a time I was chatting with a girl at night, and the girl said: "My family members have all gone out today, and I'm alone at home. I'm so scared."
What an obvious hint, but I, a young boy like me, didn't. Understand, he replied stupidly: "I'll teach you a trick. If you turn on all the lights in the house, you won't be afraid anymore. This is what I did when I was a child."
Then there was nothing. Then.
Knock on the blackboard and highlight the key points:
When a girl says to you intentionally or unintentionally: "I am alone at home today, so scared". "The lights in my house seem to be broken." .When you say something like "There is a power outage and water outage at home", if you stupidly say: "Then let me chat with you" or "Would you like to call an electricity repairman to come and take a look?", then the editor will tell you You, you deserve to be single in this life.
If you can’t tell such an obvious invitation, then don’t blame the girl for not giving you a chance.
2. "What did you just do?"
Whether it is a face-to-face chat or a WeChat chat, If a girl often says, "What did you do just now?" it seems that she is being a bit lenient, or even a little suspicious.
But sometimes when a woman says this to you, it is not just that she is questioning you, but that she is expressing her concern for you. You can actually tell the difference from the presence of coquettishness in her tone.
The implication of this sentence is, "What did you do before? Did you flirt with another girl? Do you know how long I have been waiting for you?"
Because women They are a kind of duplicitous creature. Sometimes their unfinished words, far from accusing you, are proof that they care about you.
3. “It’s so boring, I don’t know what to do”
When a girl wants a boy to chat with her , will not take the initiative to say, "Can you chat with me for a while?", but will say, "I'm so bored, I don't know what to do."
But a considerable number of boys mistakenly think: "Huh, you only thought of me when you were bored? Are you treating me as a spare tire?"
In fact, from a female perspective, girls The reason why you say you are bored does not necessarily mean you are really bored.Maybe she just misses you but is too embarrassed to say it clearly. In other words, you still have a certain place in her heart, and she is more willing to spend time with you.
Because girls treat relationships in black and white, either they don’t like them or they have a crush on them. Believe me, if a girl has no feelings for you, she will not talk nonsense to you even if she is bored playing on her phone.
So, next time when a girl starts talking to you like this, you might as well put down your guard and have a good chat with her for a while. Maybe your story will start from here.
In short, it is always difficult to guess the thoughts of girls. Many of their words contain subtexts and hints. In many cases, you can only rely on yourself to understand them.