Originally I could still chat and joke with girls. I thought this was a sign that girls were interested in me, so I mustered up the courage to confess my love to girls. Unexpectedly, the girl ignored me after I confessed my love. What is the problem? Did the girl agree to the boy's confession or reject it? What should I do if a girl ignores me after confessing my love?
1. Girls don’t like you
In fact, girls don’t like you at all, and they don’t She knows how to reject your confession, so she responds to you in this way. Don't do anything now, live your own life, and don't take the initiative to find her and act like you don't care. When she needs help, help her silently. That's fine, no need to say anything. As time goes by, if she takes the initiative to contact you, you may still have a chance. If not, give up. A man must be able to take it and let it go, and work hard to prove to her that you are not bad! Girls all like mature boys. Don't make yourself depressed and unhappy because of a girl. That will only make her look down on you.
2. Girls are considering whether to accept a confession
Generally speaking, girls will not accept a confession rashly The confession of an unfamiliar boy, even if you have paid attention to her for a long time, firmly remembered many of her details, and treated her as a very important person to you, but to her, you are still just For a friend who is not very familiar with you (I don’t know what your relationship is like), confessing hastily will only make her think that you are impulsive and hasty. It is best to first observe what activities she usually participates in and create more chance encounters (it is best to show your expertise if She is good at playing basketball or something, there seems to be a basketball game recently), take the initiative to chat with her, and take the initiative to say hello when you meet her in daily life. It is best to start as a friend, and don't become friends overnight.
So, what you have to do is, pretend that nothing happened, pretend that you have never expressed your feelings, don’t put pressure on the other person, continue to give her a relaxed and happy relationship, and make your life more exciting. To attract her, how to let her know how wonderful your life is, WeChat Moments.
3. Girls are shy and avoid
You had no scruples in chatting before, so girls will talk to you without any pressure. You were chatting, but the boy's confession broke the relationship between you, making the girl feel a little embarrassed and shy, so she stopped chatting with you. Sometimes it's like this. You can chat easily when there is no relationship, but after you have made your love clear, you will have a lot of worries. In this case, it's not that the girl doesn't like you. On the contrary, she actually cares about you and is afraid that her words will leave a bad impression on you. What the boy needs to do at this time is to eliminate your sense of oppression against the girl and let her slowly accept the relationship between you.
After confessionWhen a girl ignores you, the key point is actually that the boy misunderstands the girl's attitude, or approaches the relationship in a wrong way, which makes the girl feel at a loss. In fact, sometimes confirming a relationship does not necessarily mean confessing. It should be guided by life and words, so that I will not fall into the embarrassing situation of the girl ignoring me after confessing.
