In the process of getting along with a girl you like, you often run out of things to say while chatting, or your chat is too boring and the girl stops replying while chatting. This undoubtedly adds a lot of difficulty to chasing girls, so how should we find topics to chat with the girls we like? Let me share with you how to actively chat with girls.
How to find topics to chat with girls
1. You need to have your own life
Many boys’ daily life is very simple, usually just getting up, going to work, and eating. , watching short videos, playing games, sleeping... it's not interesting at all, and you can't dig out many interesting things from this boring life. Of course, this does not mean that there is anything wrong with this lifestyle, but the results of different lifestyles are obvious. In the eyes of girls, your life is too dull and boring.
You need to create your own lifestyle and explore interesting topics from life. This does not require much money. You may just need to change some thinking or increase the radius of your activities. For example:
You can add some sports activities, fitness or outdoor hiking, join some communities, or join some interest groups.
Even if you really can’t go out (such as the epidemic), you can still join a few more groups. In the group, you can actively interact with your group friends, which can also add a lot of chat ideas and topics for you. , then you won’t have to worry about running out of topics to talk about when chatting with girls.
Of course, including reading books and watching movies, any way that can increase the thickness of one's thoughts can be called enriching life.
2. Show your life to girls
When you do what I said above, You will find that you can show girls your colorful life. As for the way of display, it can be to update your life dynamics in the circle of friends at least once or twice a week, and convey anything about you to girls through text, pictures and videos. For example, your gym check-in photo, or the beautiful scenery you saw while hiking.
The purpose of this is to tell girls: How are you doing now? What have you been through? The ability to show your life will play an increasingly important role in your chatting with girls.
Even if your life is not exciting, you can still have very good results if you choose some aspects to show it. Showing one's own life is a very useful ability and can be said to be one of the core competencies for modern young people.
If you don’t know how to chat or chat, it’s easy to fall into awkward chatting. In fact, the other person doesn’t know what to talk to you, and he doesn’t understand you either. So before that, you need to show more to the world. About your own personality, color, deeds, hobbies, etc., to help you and the person you want to contact have more topics to talk about.
3. Enhance patience: play with the attitude of the world.
You have to know that it’s impossible to handle everyone. No matter how good you are, not every girl will like you. In this case, you can't care too much about what others think of you. It doesn't matter. Sometimes you need some game-like attitude. And with a little more patience, many things that cannot be solved now may be solved in a month.
