Chatting with girls is a process of slowly strengthening the relationship. However, many boys become colder and colder as they chat with girls. What is the reason for this?

1. Play your trump card too early

A man’s trump card is actually the connotation and content of a man. If you present all your basic situation and abilities at once To the girl, although it seemed sincere, it left no trace of mystique left. For girls, it will be unattractive, and girls will not want to continue chatting with you.

2. Value mismatch

Don’t underestimate the importance of values ????in the eyes of women. If you If a woman feels that the two of you are not equal to her in terms of appearance, body shape, age, family background, education, work, income, personality, EQ, and IQ, then you are basically out of touch. Because the first impression of you is not good, and it is later revealed that various values ????are not compatible, a woman’s attitude will quickly cool down and she will ignore you. If you don’t know how to retreat at the right time. Instead, he pestered her again and again, feeling nothing but disgust and disgust. Don't worry there won't be any emotions for you.

3. Lying

Many times, the issue of integrity is also very important. A person’s integrity can Represents a person's character. If you are asked a question you don't want to answer, you can choose not to answer it, but don't cheat. According to many case studies, those men who cheated on women did not end well in the end. What women hate most is when men deceive themselves, conceal, exaggerate, or have ulterior motives on various issues. No matter what it is, this is not endearing. I hope all my friends will be cautious. If you find that a woman is suddenly cold towards you, you must first think about whether you have told any lies, which were later ruthlessly exposed by the other party.

4. Getting too close to other members of the opposite sex

It is true that some men have very poor self-consciousness. , even though he has a girlfriend, he maintains close relationships with other women and never knows how to consider his girlfriend’s feelings. Such a man will make others feel that he is very casual, unprincipled, and untrustworthy. I don't have any boundaries in my heart, and I deserve to be treated coldly by a woman.