Boys are more proactive when they meet a girl they like. They take the initiative to chat with her and date her to promote the development of their relationship. But some girls obviously like a boy, but they don't show it very much, and they won't take the initiative to talk to you, which makes many boys mistakenly think that they are wrong. Why do girls like me but never take the initiative to talk to me?
1. Girls feel that taking the initiative is humble
Although a girl likes you, she will feel that if you act proactively, you will look humble. There are also girls who are too proactive and will lose their value ( Only those who have been a dog licker know how sad it is). If you also like this girl, then take the initiative and let her feel that you also like her through your initiative. Because if a girl doesn't take the initiative to talk to you, she might be afraid of disturbing you or that you won't like her, so your initiative is very important.
2. Girls have a passive personality
For the kind of shy and passive girls, Love should mean you take one step and she takes one step. It is you who takes the initiative first and not her. And when she tells you that she likes you, she is actually telling you: "I have taken a step forward now. I like you. Would you like to take a step forward and like me." If you also like her, she is shy and not good at it. If you are socializing, it is normal for her not to dare to speak. Then you can talk more and find more topics, and then your love can begin. .....If you don't like her then don't do anything and call it a day.
3. Girls are testing you
Even if some girls have a boy they like, they will Restrain yourself from going to him. If you send him a message, she will never take the initiative to find you. She is waiting for you to take the initiative. Maybe she is testing you to see if you are interested in falling in love. Since she wanted to get to know you in the first place, she must think you are good and have a crush on you, and she will definitely bring up the subject of love with you after a few more days of chatting. She may not say it directly, but she will definitely ask you in a subtle way how you view topics such as relationships. You can't hide your love for someone. Work harder and don't give up, your love will come soon.
4. Girls are waiting for you to take the initiative
If it is the boys who take the initiative to chat with girls at the beginning, Moreover, you chatted happily and you all liked each other. At this time, the boy gradually realized why he took the initiative every time, so he tried to be cold to the girl for a few days, and no longer took the initiative to chat with her every day like before. And what about girls? She thought that he might be busy and didn't have time, so she didn't bother him, thinking that she would just wait quietly for him to come to her, but what happened was that he asked the girl: "Why do you never take the initiative to chat with me? If I don't Does it mean that you can never come to me? "Actually?As long as you like it, it doesn't matter who takes the initiative first?
If you are still struggling with the question of why girls like me but never take the initiative to talk to me, I just want to tell you completely No need. Now that you know that the girl likes you, you may also like her. The two of you are holding your mobile phones and thinking about why the other party hasn't sent me a message. You are just waiting there. Taking the initiative in the relationship will not reduce the price. Not taking the initiative will make people feel cold.
