After chasing a girl and being rejected, boys usually think that since they can’t be together, they will have no contact with each other in the future. Unexpectedly, when he was frustrated, he actually found that the girl took the initiative to contact you again, which made the boy feel as if the girl regretted it after rejecting it, but the boy was also afraid that he would be hurt again by mistake. Now let’s talk about what it means when a girl takes the initiative to contact you after rejection?
1. Girls treat you as a spare tire
The most obvious thing about a girl who has a spare tire is that she will reject her confession. When you are about to give up chasing her, she will contact you again. , her mentality at this time is like this: "Oh, I can't bear the spare tire that I have kept for so long, so just refuse it. Anyway, if I take the initiative to contact him in a few days, he will also be upset. "Come here." If you take her for granted and run after her again, you will find that she will still reject you and contact you again. Just playing her little tricks in a loop.
2. Girls treat you as a friend
Some girls are more nervous or may be naive. I just treat you as my best friend, so we can eat and watch movies together and give each other gifts. But after you confess your love to her, she will think this person is really strange. I only regard him as a friend, but he actually wants to date me. But maybe the girl thinks you're a nice person, so it's okay for you to be just friends after rejecting you. Don't think it's impossible for a girl to treat you as a friend. Some couples can still be friends even after they break up. Not to mention that you're not even a couple, so it's not surprising that you are rejected as friends.
For example, a girl has rejected you for a month. She thinks it’s time for you to get over it and lets it go. She still treats you as a friend. It's you who has a grudge. In this case, if you accept it and don't understand it, then tell the girl clearly. It's much better than thinking about things alone.
3. A girl hopes you will continue to chase her
Maybe boys don’t understand that girls are facing boys When pursuing her, she will also have her own set of test standards. For example, it will test whether she is willing to spend money for her, how long a boy can persist in being sincere to her, and whether she will reject a boy when he pursues her to see if the boy will Will not continue. At this time, girls will think: "What's going on with this person? He ignored me after failing to express his love. Don't you know how to keep persisting?" If you haven't contacted her yet, she may try to contact you proactively. See Will you continue to chase her? If you persist, you will be able to catch her.
Finally, no matter what it means when a girl contacts you after rejecting it, you just need to clarify your inner thoughts, and If you like a girl, tell her clearly, and see how she reacts, whether she rejects you or tries to get in touch with you. If you don't like a girl anymore, it doesn't really matter what she thinks.
