Many girls break up or reject because of personality incompatibility, which makes many boys very sad. Even in the face of rejection from girls, many boys actually don’t know where the personality incompatibility manifests, and they don’t know whether two people really have incompatible personalities, let alone whether two people with incompatible personalities can be together.
1. See if you are willing to work together
In fact, everyone has a different personality, and there is no such thing as a compatible personality, only whether you are willing to tolerate and work together. Personality incompatibility is actually not the biggest obstacle to love at all; but two people with incompatible personalities are unwilling to tolerate and change for each other, which is the main reason for relationship failure.
Moreover, this is a good thing. There are no two people with similar personalities. The happy couples you see are nothing more than two people willing to make changes and sacrifices for this relationship to fulfill themselves and fulfill themselves. Fulfill each other. So two people with different personalities can be together, as long as you are willing to get along with each other.
2. See if love is enough
In fact, in real life, many people think that personality incompatibility is often It's not really inappropriate, it's just that one party doesn't like them enough. For example, there are actually no essentially straight men in the world, but many people pretend to be straight, do not understand girls, are unwilling to listen to girls, and are unwilling to understand what girls like... In fact, it boils down to just that. Because he doesn't love you enough, or he loves himself more. In fact, everyone loves themselves the most, but whether they are willing to share some of their own things and time with you is the level of love. Just like even if you are very sleepy and your girlfriend says she is thirsty, you will still get up and give her some water. Even if you are very tired, you will still press your boyfriend's shoulders. Some people say that good love is when two people are themselves. But I feel that your inner moral bottom line and three values ????are still your own, but whether other living habits and personality can make efforts and changes for a person depends on whether you love her and whether she loves you. This is the fundamental reason why two people can be together.
3. Look at real-life habit issues
Sometimes, men and women like to bring motivation It is far less effective than the influence of more than ten years of habits and growth environment. It has become fixed. At this time, the actual habit problem will become the main force affecting the relationship.
@I have to think about this for a while: I used to believe in coming together. After all, together, we can understand, compromise, and give in to each other. Everything is not a problem. But, my last relationship , I love her very much, and I always give her the best, but I am too sensitive, and she is a bit casual. Every time there is a conflict, I always tell her, let’s talk and solve the problem, but she just Only when I realize something is wrongWill talk to me, I am a very nervous person, and sometimes I don’t care much about some things. In this way, the contradictions pile up like building blocks, and finally collapse...
Can two people with different personalities get together? The answer is of course yes. But there are many prerequisites for being together, and not loving each other enough can solve all problems. Sometimes, what you can tolerate and change in the early stages of a relationship will slowly return to its true colors day after day, so many people feel that they won't be able to stick to it until the end.
