Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, but how to comfort quarreling boyfriends and girlfriends is an art. Suggestions will be given below from several aspects.

1. Listen to the other person’s point of view

When quarreling, the first thing to do is to listen to the other person’s point of view. Don't interrupt the other person or rush to express your opinion. Only when the other party feels respected and understood can they communicate and solve problems better.

For example, when your boyfriend/girlfriend starts to express their opinions, you can sit quietly and listen attentively With. Show that you're listening through your eyes and body language, and don't interrupt the other person midway.

2. Express your feelings

After listening to the other person’s point of view, it is your turn to express your feelings. However, pay attention to the wording and tone when expressing, and avoid using offensive words.

For example, you can say, "I understand your point of view, but I feel sad." This expresses your feelings without blaming the other person.

3. Find common ground

When quarreling, it is often because the two parties have different views and conflicts of interest. However, finding common ground can help ease tensions.

For example, you can say, "We both want this relationship to work better, and we can work together to figure it out." This expresses your shared goals and gives each other confidence.

4. Propose a solution

In a quarrel, proposing a solution is a very important step. Through cooperation and compromise, a mutually satisfactory solution can be found.

For example, you can say: "We can try my method, and if it doesn't work, try your method." This not only gives the other party a chance, but also expresses your suggestion.

5. Give comfort and support

It is very important to give comfort and support to the other person after a fight. No matter whose fault it is, we all need to tolerate and understand each other.

For example, you can say: "I know we just had a heated argument, but I still love you." This expresses your care and support for the other person.

To comfort quarreling boyfriends and girlfriends, you need to listen to each other's point of view, express your feelings, find common ground, propose solutions, and provide comfort and support. Through these methods, couples can be helped to better deal with quarrels and maintain their relationship.