If you feel good after your first date with a girl, then you must be eager to contact the girl again, chat with her to enhance your relationship, and even ask her for a second invitation. But if you do this, you will expose your sense of need, which can easily arouse girls' resentment, or make girls hang on to you. Let’s analyze for everyone how long is the best time to contact a girl after the first date?

1. Determine a girl’s liking for you

Sometimes a girl chats well with you before the first date, which may reflect her impression of you after the first date. Not good. No matter how you talk to her at this time, it may not be appropriate. But if a girl has a good impression of you during the date, you can contact her anytime you want. Therefore, it is very important to judge a girl's favorability. You can see some clues in the process of dating.

For example, during a date, does she chat with you absent-mindedly, or does she actively cooperate with you? For example, after a date, if you suggested changing the date, would she readily agree, or would she make an excuse and say that she had something to do and needed to go home first? For example, when you propose where to go on your next date, does she discuss it with you, or is she obviously not interested... You can tell a girl's attitude from these details.

2. Don’t contact a girl too early or too late

If you can tell from the details of the date that a girl is interested in you, then you can continue to contact her, but here You also need to pay attention to some skills and don't contact girls too early or too late. Let me explain it to you in detail below:

If you contact a girl too early, it will make her feel that you need her, and you will not occupy a dominant position in subsequent interactions. It is best to contact you the next day after the first date. Generally, the other party will think about it after the date. If you contact you immediately, the other party will feel disgusted or have not thought about how to reply to you.

Of course, don’t wait too long after the first date before contacting the girl. For example, you should wait more than 10 days and a half before contacting her. Girls will only make the other party rack their brains to think: "Who are you?" Contacting a girl too long after the first date will largely make the girl think: you have no further thoughts at all, then she will naturally not be right. If you have a particularly good impression of me, I won’t care too much about you.

3. How to contact a girl after the first date

When it’s time to contact a girl after the first date, how should you contact her? You can send a greeting message to a girl. If the girl replies to you and then chats with you a lot, it means that there is something interesting between you, and you need to prepare to continue developing with her. If the girl doesn't reply, she may be busy and didn't see the message. She will contact you when she sees the message. It is also possible that the girl is not interested in you, and even if she replies to you, she will be very perfunctory, and you can clearly feel it..

Finally, how long it takes to contact a girl after the first date mainly depends on the girl’s favorability towards you, so during the date, the boy Be sure to behave well and observe carefully.