What does dating transition mean? Regarding transitions, a rough explanation is: changing dating scenes. When we date the opposite sex, if we stay in a certain space for a long time, it will quickly become boring and monotonous, which will quickly reduce the attractiveness of both parties. Therefore, transition is particularly necessary. Let me share with you the tips you need to know about transitions in dates.
1. Why dating transitions are important
When you are dating a girl, if you do not make transitions, your attraction will plummet. Of course, there are also experienced people who will fight against the boring feeling caused by the fixed dating scene through the transformation of the discourse system and good interaction. But for the vast majority of people, transitioning is far more direct and effective than the highly technical task of switching discourse systems.
The advantage of transition is that you don’t need to think about the awkward, uncomfortable, and twisted situations when you get along. All you have to do is lead the girl to change places, such as:
< p> Don’t just have dinner every date. Maybe you can take the girl to climb the highest mountain in the area first?Instead of just watching movies every time you go on a date, maybe you can go to Universal Studios to see Transformers?
Don’t drive to pick her up every time you go on a date. Maybe you can find the girl on foot and get drunk together and not come home tonight?
There can be many kinds of places for dates. As long as you are full of imagination, there are endless choices: you can step on the gas and go horseback riding in the wild; you can also put on sneakers and walk. Half marathon; or look up at the sky together, fly a kite, and treat cervical spondylosis by the way; of course, regular operations such as eating and watching movies, karaoke, catching dolls, archery, and trampoline can still be performed alternately.
The function of dating transition is to lead girls to constantly open new space interfaces. And in every new environment, the relationship between girls and you becomes closer and closer.
Moreover, if you encounter confusion during a date, you only need to make a transition to solve it immediately:
< p> Don’t know what to say to a girl on a date? It doesn't matter! Just lead girls to places with high energy fields, such as bars, pubs, concerts, trampolines, sports competitions, etc.Want to know a girl’s personality and intelligence when dating? Simple! Taking girls to places like secret rooms, script killings, or even playing a certain game on the phone can be a good way to get along.
2. Issues that need to be paid attention to when transitioning during a date
1. The transition should be natural and not abrupt
When transitioning on a date, it must be natural and not too abrupt. Forcibly asking girls to change places. For example, some girls like the atmosphere of a bar. If you insist on dragging girls to eat skewers, this is a very failed transition. Of course, we can use some words to guide girls to transition to the point where we want her toPlaces to go:
There is a newly opened barbecue restaurant nearby. The meat grilled by that guy from Xinjiang is amazing~
I have a friend who happens to be playing there too. , let’s go together!
Let’s change to a fun place~~
2. Combine your own characteristics and girls’ reactions. Transition
As described in detail in the previous article, there are many dating scenes. Some scenes do not require speaking, and some scenes require a strong sense of communication. Transitions must be made according to your own characteristics. For example:
If you can’t speak, take them to places where you don’t need to speak: trampoline, badminton, horse riding, handicraft shop, watching movies, etc.
If you need to quickly upgrade your relationship with a girl, you can go to places with an ambiguous atmosphere: bars, private cinemas, KTV, your home, etc.
If you need strong communication, find a quiet place: a high-end restaurant, a coffee shop, your home (hehe), etc.
If a girl responds well, you can advance the relationship as soon as possible. If the response is average, then change the place and continue dating. Carry out according to your own situation.
3. The frequency of transitions should not be too high
This is easy to understand. Everyone’s physical strength is limited. You cannot take a girl to too many places on one date. Generally speaking, no more than three or four places in a day are enough. Of course, you also have to consider issues such as distance and transportation convenience.
3. What are the options for date transitions?
A few final words: transitions are the best The important skill actually comes from being determined enough. You know where to take him, and you have that sense of calmness. You won't panic or be at a loss. This actually requires you to have a good date. mentality. Of course, your proficiency in those dating scenes is also a very important factor in leading the transition.