If after you confess your love to a girl, she remains silent but does not reject you directly and clearly. This situation will make many boys confused. Does this attitude of a girl mean she accepts her confession or refuses her confession? Let me analyze for you what does it mean when a girl is silent and doesn't speak after confessing to her?
1. Girls use you as a spare tire
Maybe you are just a spare tire in the eyes of girls, but your confession is actually letting the girl express her position on whether she is willing to be you. girlfriend. At this time, the girl's silence is actually an attitude of neither rejecting nor accepting, because she doesn't want to lose you as a spare tire. Maybe you are still valuable to her, or a substitute.
This situation is actually easy to judge. After confessing your love, you should be cold to the girl for a while. If she really doesn’t want to lose you as a spare tire, then she will take the initiative to be enthusiastic towards you, making you mistakenly think that there is still a chance. , licking her again.
2. A girl rejects you tactfully
From the perspective of a girl, after confessing to a girl Her silence is actually a tactful rejection of you, but the etiquette of girls makes her embarrassed to directly say rejection to you, and she doesn't want to hurt someone who really likes her in such a straightforward way. After all, you express your true feelings to her, but she has no intention of doing so, so how can you refuse? I think you should understand if you don’t respond.
In the relationship between a man and a woman, whether or not you respond to your confession shows the other person’s attitude and thoughts towards you. It's just that some people like to point it out directly, while others use silence to let you retreat.
3. Girls are reserved and shy
If you confess your love to a girl in person, the girl will even want to agree to you. Confession, but the face will be reserved and shy, and she will not be able to answer you clearly, so she does not answer for the time being. In this case, it may be shyness. If the other party responds later, it will be like this. If she doesn't respond to you afterwards, it may be that she really rejected you.
For this kind of reserved and shy girl, the emotional development speed may be much slower, but as long as you develop a relationship with her step by step, the subsequent relationship will be much more stable.
4. Girls are testing you
Some girls may be confused by boys’ first two confessions. Refusing to agree, or being silent in response, is not actually because she wants to reject you, but because she is not sure that you really love her, and she wants to see how long you can persist in pursuing her. Find out if you want to pursue her on a whim, or if you really like her. Such a girl is very cautious about her feelings. She will only agree to you after she is sure that your feelings for her are true.
