In fact, many girls are not confident enough. When faced with the pursuit of boys, they will also worry about whether boys are sincere to them. They feel that they are not worthy enough to be liked by boys, and they want to know why boys like them. So boys, how should you answer when a girl asks you what you like about me?

1. Uniqueness

When a girl asks you what you like about me, the key point is that you must give an answer that is immutable and highlights your uniqueness, otherwise you may be endlessly Ask. You need to direct the topic from external things to your inner soul, so that the topic only concerns your two souls and nothing else. Example:

Female: "What do you like about me?"

Male: "I like you Exist."

After thinking for a while, her eyes flashed with light, as if she had found a breakthrough, and she said:

"I...I don't exist..."

< p>　Male: "Oh? Then what is talking to me now?"

Female: "..."

She asked again: "Then...then what if I don't exist?" Do you still like me?"

Male: "This assumption is not valid, I can't ask, the existing 'I' cannot assume that 'I' does not exist."

Woman: "..."

Then she never bothered me with this kind of question again, and my life became much easier.

2. The advantages of liking her

In fact, when a girl asks questions like "What do you like about me?", it is a sign of lack of security. She actually wants to know that there are so many girls in the world, why did you only choose her? In other words, she is worried that you are just "greedy for her body" and might leave tomorrow.

Now that things have happened, you have to tell her honestly what you admire about her. Generally speaking, you can't just mention appearance. Just like as a boy, you don't want a girl to say that she only loves your money. Of course, it is best to conduct an inspection at the early stage of contact.

If you like someone who can cook, you can ask her what dishes she is good at;

If you like someone with a good temper, you can ask her how to deal with conflicts;

If you like meaningful books, you can ask her what books she has read recently;

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After she answers, give her a simple compliment to let her know that you get it Got to her point.

Some male compatriots are afraid of doing this. They always say that finding a girlfriend is a female. This is very bad. This is a disguised form of telling girls that you are just a "hanging silk" with no standards. Even if a girl accepts you, she will inevitably have this knot in her heart: What do you like about me?

Let’s think about it for a moment. If you are a rich man, you probably can’t stand it if women only seem to care about your money. When a girl asks you what you like about me, you should learn to ask her a few serious questions to examine her strengths and weaknesses. By answering your questions and striving for your approval, the girl will be "relieved": It turns out that she is irreplaceable in your mind. When a girl asks you what you like about me, she is actually seeking this sense of security.