Chatting with a girl is not as simple as kneeling and flattering. If you want to make her feel good, you need to use reasonable routines to deepen the sense of identity between both parties. So what are the routines for chatting with girls?
< h2>What are some chatting routines with girls?1. "He too"
Chatting is a matter between two people, why does "he" appear? What?
This is actually our initiative to introduce a third person from the outside world, suddenly inserting a person into the circle of two people. Of course, this person must be less valuable than you.
①: Test the depth of the relationship through her reflection.
②: Strong contrast to show its rarity.
③: Let her shift her attention from common interests to you.
2. "Understand it"
It can be a movie, a musical, a song, a phenomenon.
It can be common, strange, or not understood by ordinary people.
In short, it doesn’t matter what it is.
The important thing is that she has doubts about it, or she likes it.
3. "Understand you"
As we all know, girls are difficult to understand, specific to individual girls. It’s getting harder and harder again.
Fortunately, we don’t need to fully understand her. We only need to grasp the ways in which she is different from ordinary people, so that we can most efficiently improve her sense of identity.
And you know everything, can understand everything, and can analyze the reasons based on the phenomenon. To put it simply, you can show off.
Don’t think that “pretending” is a derogatory term. This is the only way for you to become awesome. Of course, the cornerstone of all this is to train your own way of thinking.
4. "Understand me"
Give up this idea, no girl will completely understand you.
But if you say to a girl, "Wow, you understand me, no one has ever understood me before."
She just understands you, and your recognition of her will come full circle. Finally, it becomes her recognition of you that is superimposed on the relationship.
The high-level gameplay is that we have changed a lot for girls, and of course we have to change her. You like a great English song, a singer who is not valued by the public, and you have a lot of secrets of your own.
Share it with her. As long as there is one point that matches her taste, that means she understands you a little more, and this point will exist in your relationship as a heart anchor for a long time. When she hears that song Song will remind you.
5. "Secret"
"Let me tell you something, IIt has never been told to outsiders..."
It doesn’t matter whether it’s true or false, or whether it’s big or small. As long as this secret can serve the following three functions, then you must tell it:
①: Give her her unique speciality
②: Showing her vulnerable side
③: Laying long-term foreshadowing
The ambush pen is the most interesting. Let me share one that I use most The foreshadowing routine:
I will tell her a secret: I am very afraid of the cold, far beyond ordinary people, and I dare not go out every winter.
The biggest significance of this foreshadowing is. That is, I will:
①: Ask her out on a snowy night in winter
②: Give her something in the snow
③: In the cold In the wind, he took off his clothes and put them on hers
A vampire bravely faces the sun for his lover. This is the most romantic thing in the eyes of girls.
