Before going on a blind date, we can do some preparations to find suitable topics in the chat. It is important to understand the other person's interests, hobbies and professional background. Through social media or introductions from mutual friends, we can get some basic information about each other.
We can think about some open-ended questions in advance, such as travel experiences, favorite movie music, recently read books, etc. These questions can help us get to know each other better and can also lead to more interesting topics.
2. Discovery of common topics
In blind date chatting, it is very important to find common topics. When we discover that we share common interests, it makes conversations flow more smoothly and is more enjoyable. For example, if we both love traveling, we could share our favorite travel destinations and experiences. This will not only enhance mutual understanding, but also stimulate more topics about travel.
We can also find common topics by observing each other’s characteristics. For example, if the person is wearing a T-shirt from a band we like, we can ask them what they think of the band, or share their love of music.
3. Use of open-ended questions
In blind date chats, using open-ended questions is a good way to guide the conversation. Open-ended questions require a detailed answer from the other person, not just a simple "yes" or "no." For example, we can ask each other: "Where is your favorite travel destination? Why?" Such questions can stimulate the other person to think more deeply, and also allow us to learn more about the other person.
We can also spice up the conversation by raising some interesting hypothetical situations. For example, questions like, "If you were one day turned into an animal, what would you want to be? Why?" can make the conversation more interesting by eliciting some interesting and unexpected answers.
4. Respect and Listening
In a blind date chat, respect and listening are very important. We should give each other full attention and respect, listen carefully to what they say, and actively participate in the dialogue. When we show genuine interest and concern, the other person will also be more willing to share their thoughts and experiences with us.
We should also avoid interrupting the other person's speech and pay attention to our own non-verbal expressions, such as eye contact and smiling. These small gestures can convey respect and concern for each other.
5. Relaxation and humor
In a blind date chat, it is important to maintain relaxation and humor. Through some humorous words or stories, we can relieve the tense atmosphere and make the conversation more interesting. However, we need to be careful not to overuse humor so as not to offendother side.
We can also share some interesting experiences or jokes to resonate with each other. Laughter is a bridge between people and helps us build better relationships.
6. In-depth communication
In blind date chats, we should strive to have in-depth communication. In addition to asking open-ended questions, we can also ask more challenging questions, such as our views on a certain social issue or our plans for the future. Questions like this can help us better understand each other’s values ??and goals.
We can also share our stories and experiences to build deeper connections with each other. By sharing some real and interesting stories, we can help each other get to know us better and inspire others to share their own stories.
Dating and chatting is a process of getting to know each other and building a relationship. By preparing, finding common topics, using open-ended questions, respecting and listening, staying relaxed and humorous, and communicating in depth, we can find the right topics in our blind date chats and build a good foundation for communication.
