Blind dates are actually very skillful. Some people can have a rough understanding of each other after the first blind date, while others may need to chat for a long time to understand each other. Today, the editor will teach you how to get to know each other during a blind date chat?

1. Use these 3 points to first judge the blind date

(1) The character must be upright. If they ask you all kinds of questions about whether you have a car or a house, and you care more about finances and money, then you are probably a money-worshiping girl

(2) Although you are not required to be beautiful in appearance, you have to like it and go on a blind date reluctantly. Both parties are wasting time

　(3) Characters should be cheerful and interesting

2. Understand each other’s values

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Values ??are a very vain thing to say, but they can be reflected in one way, that is, to see what the other party hates.

Many times, we don’t know what we like the most, but instead talk about some annoying things or things, because when we touch the pain points, we will have more to say. And what you hate better reflects a person's values.

Of course, the premise is that you need to throw the bricks first and open up the topic before you can lead to jade.

Here I will share with you a boy’s blind date story:

The two people arrived at the agreed place and said hello. , confirm the identity, then take a seat, and start... big eyes and small eyes.

After more than ten minutes without speaking, the boy thought: As a man, it seems not good to not take the initiative, so he took the initiative to open the topic and said:

"Well, you What do you like?"

"Eat."

"What else?"

"No more..."

Atmosphere. It was very embarrassing, and we couldn't continue chatting, so we could only eat in silence. Fortunately, the food was quite good, and we could see that she was really a foodie, and she ate with relish.

Then the boy said:

"Speaking of food, do you have any taboos? I don’t like eating mutton very much. I think the smell is too strong and I can’t bear it. I don’t even choose it when eating hot pot.” She looked at the boy and was still eating in her mouth. After a few dozen seconds, Until she emptied the food in her mouth, the girl said: "How could it be possible? That's because the mutton was not processed well. Let me tell you, mutton is so delicious when eaten like this, balabala..."

Then The girl continued: "Actually, there are things I don't like to eat. I can't eat bitter melon, balabala. I hate people saying that I eat so much but don't gain weight. It's a waste. Why, balabala."</ p>

During that meal, the boy and the girl became more and more happy as they chatted. From the process of chatting, the boy also felt that the girl was actually a relatively innocent little girl.

Values ??are the core thinking of everyone. If the values ??of two people are too different, even if they are twisted together and twisted into twists, it will not be sweet. For happiness and to avoid pain, you must know.