I wanted to ask a girl out to deepen our relationship, but she replied that she was working overtime. At this time, in addition to being disappointed, of course you can't forget to comfort the girl with words. So what is the best way to reply when a girl says she is working overtime? ?
1. Reply in hate mode
Generally speaking, working overtime in your spare time is not a good thing Things, girls are naturally not in a good mood when they work overtime, so we can use the hatred mode reply method to reverse the bad mood of girls. For example: "Why can you work in your free time and get paid (in exchange for time off), but I can only rest at home? It's so unfair." In fact, the girl's original intention is not to work overtime, but if you say this It seems that you are quite envious of her working overtime. This will not only make the girl feel that you are teasing her, but this sentence is also very safe and can make the girl feel that you are comforting her.
2. Compassion mode reply
"You have to work on weekends, your leader is simply "Extracting cheap child labor." The key point in this sentence is the word "child labor", which means that you are comparing the girl to a cute little child, which shows that her image in your mind is very good, and the girl is dissatisfied. While working overtime, you can also secretly be happy that you have such a high opinion in your heart.
3. Rewarding reply
“It’s so hard, I have to work overtime on weekends, hold on strong, you are not fighting alone. So be it, I’ll wait until you finish working overtime Please go to dinner and reward our little fairy. "Girls are usually physically and mentally exhausted after working overtime. At this time, if you offer to treat her to dinner and reward her, she will also look forward to the dinner after working overtime.
4. Warm companionship
When a girl talks about working overtime, what does she want most? Of course, boys can Work overtime with her (provided that boys can stay by her side when girls work overtime). When a girl is tired from working overtime, you can hand her a cup of milk tea or a cup of coffee at the right time; when a girl is hungry, take her to eat, or order takeaway for her in advance... These are all very good behaviors to enhance your goodwill.
Working overtime is actually a relatively common form, and working overtime is also considered to complete the work better, so boys must not be unhappy or persuade girls because they refuse to date because they say they work overtime. No overtime. It's about giving the girl enough support and being her strong backing when necessary, so that the girl can feel your care and feel happy even if she works overtime.
