The reason why straight men are tricked by girls is because their incomprehensible amorous feelings have already made girls feel very boring during the chat without realizing it, which eventually led to them being deleted and blocked by girls. Next, let’s take a look at how straight men chat.
1. Household check-style chat
Many straight men, when chatting with girls, He always likes to ask girls one question after another. They try to avoid embarrassment in the chat by asking questions, for fear that there will be no topic and it will cause an awkward moment.
But such continuous questions are actually asking for value, which will make girls feel that you have a strong sense of need. Especially when the other person has not yet established a good impression of you, it will only make the other person feel bored. Know that she is not obligated to answer your questions. As a result, he is disliked by girls.
2. Excessive display of oneself
There are also some straight male friends who particularly like to be self-centered and always want to show off themselves. As a result, it leads to excessive display. Every sentence is about how I am and how I am. Almost every sentence starts with "I".
You have to know that continuing to communicate in a self-centered way will make girls feel very tired. Because the girls can’t get in the conversation, the chat turns into a stand-up comedy by you, and all the girls’ words are snatched away by you. This is not called interaction at all, and you don’t even care about the girls’ feelings. It would be strange not to be blocked by girls.
Showing yourself is indeed a display of value to a certain extent, but showing yourself too much is a very low behavior.
3. Topics that cross the line
Many straight men believe that when chatting with girls, they should talk about anything. When talking, treating one's own embarrassments and the other person's minor flaws as jokes in the chat not only lower one's own status, but also make the other person very embarrassed.
Although, two people should be sincere when getting along. But that doesn’t excuse you from trampling on and ignoring the current stage of your relationship. The depth of the topic is determined according to the stage of the relationship. Talking lightly and talking deeply means crossing the line, and talking deeply and talking lightly means treating yourself too much as an outsider.
Therefore, be sure to control the depth of your topics, and stop losses as soon as possible if there is any behavior that crosses the line. You can't talk about each other's emotional history with a girl you just met, because that has transcended the stage of your relationship.
4. Aimless chatting
Many straight men like to chat aimlessly, thinking that if they chat more with girls, they will develop feelings for each other.
However, in fact, a girl’s patience with a man is limited. If your chatting is aimless and does not have any positive effect on upgrading your relationship, then the girl's patience will be quickly exhausted by you. Especially high-quality girls,They have seen too many boring men, and their patience is even more limited. Therefore, chatting must have a process and structure. If you don’t do the right things at the right stage, you will be far away from GAME. OVER takes another step forward.
5. Don’t accept it when you see it coming
This problem is not just for straight men, many friends are chatting with girls. Every time, we make this mistake.
You must know that every time you interact with a girl, the girl's mood will always reach a peak. The peak of this peak is when a girl is in the best mood. Then after this, the girl's mood can only slowly decline. If you still catch a girl and chat non-stop, it is very likely that the original goodwill will be worn away by you.
Please remember, when you feel that you can no longer make a girl's emotions more passionate, please withdraw in time and don't fight. She feels wonderful chatting with you this time, and she will naturally look forward to the next round of chatting. If you make this chat experience bad, there will basically be no next time.
The above are the five chatting methods commonly used by straight men when chatting with girls. I hope you can change them if you have them, and encourage them if you don’t.