The second chat with your blind date is very crucial. After all, the first chat is just a simple exchange of greetings and information, while the second chat determines the direction of the relationship between two people. Then chat with your blind date for the second time. What's a better way to start?

How to start chatting with a blind date for the second time?

1. Find commonalities

Find the same hobbies and prepare for the first date . Try to find big similarities, such as the type of movie you like to watch, suspense or horror, comedy or action. Then discuss further, what complaints and expectations about recent movies.

2. Share your experience in raising pets

Most young people nowadays like pets very much. They feel that kittens and puppies can give them a little healing in their busy life. If you have had the experience of raising pets in your life or at home before, you can take the initiative to say what kind of animals you like and what your views are on pets in the future. This can provide the basis for the two of them to go to a place like a cat cafe together in the future, or determine the other person's preferences, so as not to cause trouble when developing further.

3. Sharing of daily life

Usually after adding the other party’s WeChat, you can check the other party’s This is the beginning of the circle of friends. For example, where did the other person go to play yesterday? If you have been to this place before, what are your impressions of the food and fun there? If you have never been there, you can express your yearning and guide the other person to talk more about his or her experience. There's also the weather, general weather conditions that can be used as an opening message at any time and generally won't feel awkward. But be careful to combine the traffic and your own experiences when talking, otherwise it will seem like you have nothing to talk about. For example: The weather was bad today, it was stormy, I was almost late on the way to work, and I saw... How are you doing over there? Keep warm and take care of yourself. Show concern for the other person appropriately.

4. Understand the other party’s thoughts

When the second time comes, you must first understand whether the other party has Meaning to continue. The intentions of two people must be determined first. If the other party wants to continue with the next step, the chat between you will become easier. After all, it is easier to go in both directions.